· Sign up for newsletters. Anytime you find yourself in a cafe, club, gallery or store, take their business card, stash the brochure/program/catalog in your pocket (you can always use them to make a kitschy collage or just recycle them later), or write down your email on their newsletter sign-up sheet. The more open you are to opportunities, the more you will find yourself on the receiving end of invitations to parties, gatherings, exhibitions, concerts and the like.