My husband’s Czech parents didn’t understand the concept of the causal wedding that we needed to have because I lost my job, my visa was about to expire and, uh, I was pregnant. We planned it in less than a month. The in-laws-to-be threatened not to come because they didn’t like our choice of reception venue (the pub) and the fact that my husband was going to wear sneakers with his suit and I didn’t have a train on my dress.