During normal labour, a woman`s womb contracts and her cervix (neck of womb) gradually opens. The cervix, like vagina and rectum, is a sphincter and only able to function properly if the conditions are right. Think how difficult it would be to make love in a noisy, brightly lit room where strangers barge in without knocking. Imagine sitting on a toilet in a room full of people, all looking at you, waiting for you to go… ! Think about where you would like to give birth if you REALLY had a choice. Down by the ocean maybe or in a darkened quiet corner of woodland, or possibly even your own home.Certainly the survey highlighted a couple`s need to feel welcome and secure in an environment that is more like home than a traditional hospital ward.